Table For One, Please....Single Dining at Restaurants

Authentic Vietnamese dining in Chicago's West Loop

Sometimes my most intriguing restaurant finds are based on totally random experiences.  Last week I was asked to attend a special event celebrating Balvenie single malt scotch (check out my blog on that event here).  I arrived in the area over an hour early, so I decided to park and just take a walk to check out the West Randolph Street area.  I had not been in that part of town for over a year and wanted to see if there were any new restaurants.  Or, more accurately, "new to me" restaurants.

Voila!

Just a few doors down from where I parked my car, I walked past a somewhat unassuming facade advertising a restaurant with what I perceived to be a singularly odd name, "Sawtooth."  Looking in the windows, I was immediately intrigued by the decor and the well-stocked bar, so I decided to check it out.  Note to self, "Boy am I glad I did!"

To clarify the odd name, I found the following information from the Sawtooth website:

Sawtooth Restaurant takes its name from the culantro herb, Ngò Gai also known as sawtooth, named for its long, slender, serrated leaves. This herb is commonly used in Vietnamese cooking due to its wonderful fragrance and taste.

Sawtooth is a restaurant and lounge serving authentic Vietnamese cuisine. The menu is based on small plates served as a communal meal, a shared experience customary in Vietnamese dining.  The interior decor is sleek, sophisticated, and tremendously inviting.

Sawtooth has a surprisingly extensive menu! As a single diner, the concept of small plates works extremely well.  I can order several things instead of filling up on one single entree.  Vietnamese cuisine is one that I haven't really sampled extensively, so I felt it was time to try it out.

During this visit, I ordered one item from the "Soup, Salad & Noodle" portion of the menu and one from the "Appetizer" portion.  Don't be fooled by the concept of "small" plates.  By the time I finished the salad, I found that could only finish half of the appetizer and had to take the rest home.  Sawtooth absolutely provides value for the money, both in quantity and quality.

For my salad, I sampled the Green Papaya Salad and opted to have that with dried beef (a.k.a. beef jerky).  You can also opt for ham, tofu or vegetables only.  My first few bites were a surprise because the combination of basil and peppers in the salad was just a bit hotter than I had expected.  After a few bites, though, the flavor evened out for me and I thoroughly enjoyed the entree.  To be honest, this was the first time I had tried dried beef as an accompaniment to a salad, and it was a perfect choice.

For my appetizer, I decided to the Wild King Salmon Rolls (crispy egg rolls with salmon, jicama, carrots, and glass noodles).  The portion size was gigantic!  I finished half of it and had to pack the rest to take home.  If you are a fan of salmon, then this is a "must try" item.



As with all of my solo dining blogs, one of my primary focuses is on service.  I like to assess how I am treated as a single diner and if I feel that either the service or the menu marginalizes the experience of a single diner in any fashion.  Sawtooth lived up to my expectations of fine dining as a single diner.  The service was swift and efficient.  The hostess sat me in a lovely location with a full view of the front windows and the rest of the dining room.  The server was polite, engaging, and extremely knowledgeable about the menu.  She let me know that, like the kitchen, the beverages are held to same standard featuring organic and biodynamic wines, local microbrews and cocktails made from house infused spirits.



If you want to sample (1) a great restaurant and (2) Vietnamese cuisine and (3) great service and (4) an area with ample free parking (BONUS!), then you must visit Sawtooth.  As either a single diner or in a group, I am sure you will find this one to be worth a visit to West Randolph Street.

You can follow Sawtooth on Twitter or on Facebook.  They are located on the NW corner of Randolph St. and Ada St. in the West Loop at 1350 W. Randolph Street.



Epicuriously Yours,

Tommy Hensel
Table For One, Please!

Blogette: Dining Out For Life on Thursday, April 26

From time to time I will be posting brief items about specific events which might interest the readers of this blog.  I will call these short items, "Blogettes."




We all love to eat out, right?  What better combination than enjoying a wonderful meal AND supporting a great cause at the same time?  On Thursday, April 26, 2012 Chicago's EdgeAlliance presents the 19th annual "Dining Out For Life" event.  This is part of a worldwide day of dining and there are restaurants in over 58 cities participating in North American and Nigeria!


According to the Dining Out For Life Chicago website, "On Thursday, April 26th, 2012, join us to celebrate food, friends and a great cause at our 19th annual Dining Out For Life! Last year, Chicago raised over $125,000 to continue its mission of providing housing with life services to men, women & children living with HIV/AIDS. This year we hope to raise $150,000. You can help make a difference by joining us along with 60 other cities throughout North America and Nigeria and dine out on Thursday, April 26th!  Dine Out. Fight AIDS."





And for those of you outside of the Chicagoland area, here is a link to participating restaurants in the other cities.


Epicuriously Yours,
Tommy Hensel
Table For One, Please!

Spectacular fine dining in the Chicago suburbs

Chicago is a city noted for many things and among those are some of the best restaurants in the world.  Foodies have an endless array of opportunities in the city, but what many people fail to remember is that the suburbs of Chicago also contain some spectacular dining options.  Last weekend I had the pleasure to experience one of the newest restaurants in the Western suburbs.  Here is my advice, “Run, do not walk, and make a reservation now for Waterleaf in Glen Ellyn!”



Waterleaf is a new 150-seat restaurant overlooking the lake next to the Macinich Arts Center on the campus of the College of DuPage in Glen Ellyn, IL.  The restaurant is contained in the new 60,000 square foot Culinary & Hospitality Center at the college, the first LEED-certified Culinary & Hospitality center in the country!   Tuesdays & Wednesday, the culinary arts program presents special culinary dinners, served in the restaurant.  


The rest of the week, however, the restaurant is professionally staffed and open to the general public.  The superb cuisine has been crafted by Executive Chef Jean-Louis Clerc.  According to the Waterleaf website, “Executive Chef Jean-Louis Clerc specializes in French and international fine-dining cuisine. He has more than 16 years of professional cooking and kitchen management experience in the United States, Europe and the Caribbean. Trained by some of the best chefs in the world, Jean-Louis brings his remarkable talents to College of DuPage for the benefit of Waterleaf patrons.”


Waterleaf is situated on the shores of a lovely lake with a water feature.  There is a back patio with a fire pit, a beautiful setting for those days with pleasant weather.  The dining room, although not huge, feels spacious due to the floor-to-ceiling windows overlooking the water and the abundance of natural light.  The decor is simple, elegant and understated producing that perfect sense of style without ostentation. 

   
As a solo diner I have rarely been treated better.  If anything, the service was overly-solicitous largely because the restaurant was not busy.  Believe me,  that lack of business will change as word gets out about this venue.  All of this aside, the best reason to visit is not for the ambiance, but for the superb food. 



Their lunch menu, brunch menu and dinner menu are all available on the website.  I visited on a Saturday for lunch.  There is an ala carte lunch menu which will change monthly, but on my visit they also had a special prix fixe menu priced at a phenomenally reasonable $19.  Their wine list is modest, but extremely eclectic and interesting.  On the advice of my server I ordered a glass of 2009 Clos de la Coutale, a Malbec/Merlot blend from southwest France.  This proved to be a perfect accompaniment to the amazing meal which followed.  


As I was waiting for the first course, the chef sent out an amuse bouche of tart fruit drizzled with honey and a crispy salami chip.  It was both simple and elegant, which became the trademark for the rest of the meal.  All of the food was prepared with great finesse in such a way that all of the individual elements were clear and separate, but managed to blend together perfectly.  Nothing was tremendously complex on first bite, but the flavors melded as the meal progressed.


For the starter, I chose the soup of the day which was a beautifully-presented blend with one half celery soup and the other half celery root soup, drizzled with walnut oil and fresh dill.  On first taste, I thought it was a bit bland but after a few moments the flavors seemed to blossom and it became a great, subtle starter to the meal.  My entree was a pan-seared whitefish served on a bed of jasmine rice pilaf with sides of yellow teardrop tomatoes and broccoli rabe with a lemongrass gastrique.  Again, subtle individual flavors but perfectly paired with each other - sweet, savory, bitter and salty all in balanced combination.


Perhaps the most amazing part of the meal, however, was the dessert course.  I chose the "floating island" which was billed as "Fluffy Meringue served with a Fresh Vanilla Crème Anglaise and topped with Caramel."  I was totally unprepared for the gigantic portion served in a huge glass.  On the advice of both the chef and the server, I paired the dessert with a glass of Warres Porto 20 year old Tawny - a nice complement to the sweet creaminess of the Crème Anglaise.  Just when I thought we were done, the chef sent out a final gift - a small plate with a few pettifours including a dark chocolate truffle and a tiny pistachio biscotti.  

Needless to say, I left the table fully-satisfied.  Want to hear one of most stunning parts of the story?  Even with wine and port, the entire meal was only $40!  That alone makes the commute a worthwhile investment of time and energy.




Waterleaf has varying hours due to the use of the space by the culinary arts students.  Check their website for specific hours of operation.  Waterleaf is easily-accessible from the city and is located about 25 miles from downtown Chicago near I-88 and I-355.  You can follow Waterleaf on Facebook, on Twitter of you can visit the Waterleaf website.  Make a reservation today.  Believe me, the trip will be well worth it!   


Epicuriously Yours,
Tommy Hensel
Table For One, Please!

Blogette: Dining Alone in Denver

 

 

A friend recently forwarded me the link to a fascinating article from the Denver Post.  Here’s a link to the article by Tucker Shaw, titled “Eating Alone: There’s nothing quite like sharing a meal with someone you love – yourself.” 
 

 

Although many of the concepts discussed don’t necessarily resonate to me, there are a few that made me go “Aha!”  I particularly love the quote from Chris Gregory:

 

“ You’ve committed to the reservation, the table, the menu.  When we see a single diner come in, we see someone who’s gone out of their way to come here.”

 

Hooray!  I hope every restaraunt owner/manager in the universe reads that one.  I also resonated strongly with this quote:

 

“People eating alone aren’t paying attention to flirting with a date.  Instead, their attention goes to themselves and their food.”


For me this is entirely the case.  When dining alone, I get to eat what I want and never have to feel pressured by someone else to order something.  Also, while eating, I am focused as much as possible on my experience and am not distracted by feeling the need to engage in conversation.

 



Take a moment to read the article and leave your comments here.  I would love to start a lively discussion of the interesting points brought up here, particularly the reference to being “sleazy.”  I can’t wait to read your commentary on that one! 

You might also get a laugh reading the comments on the article’s page.  If you can avoid getting indigestion from the poster who calls himself Napoleon B (what a pretentious jerk!) then you might get a chuckle from the comments.

 Here’s the link again.

 

Please read the article and comment here.  Let’s get a good discussion going!

 

Epicuriously Yours,

Tommy Hensel

Table For One, Please

 

¡Viva México! "South of the border" solo dining in Oak Park

 

I have maintained for many years that I simply do not like Mexican food.  My exposure to “south of the border" cuisine has always been that unappetizing combination labeled "Tex Mex."  In my mind, that was obviously what all Mexican food must be like.  Luckily, some persistent friends here in the Chicagoland area finally convinced me to try authentic Mexican food in the city and my perspective changed. 

 

True "Mexican" cuisine is not only amazingly tasty, it is varied and exciting.  I still don't enjoy the taste of jalapeño peppers or cilantro (just a personal idiosyncrasy), but moving beyond those two flavors I have discovered a whole new horizon in cuisine.


 

  

Living in the suburbs, many of my culinary adventures happen outside of the Chicago city limits.  One of my favorite haunts for both food and culture is Oak Park.  From the wonderful Frank Lloyd Wright properties to the charming Marion Street area, Oak Park is a walkable and exciting place to visit, and there are some wonderful restaurants there.  One of the most concentrated areas for great dining is near the intersection of Oak Park Avenue and Lake Street.  Just south of this intersection, only steps from the Green Line CTA, is a Mexican restaurant called Maya del Sol.


In order to explore my newly-acquired taste for Mexican food, I recently ventured into Maya del Sol for a solo dining experience.  For both cuisine and for decent single dining treatment, I definitely recommend a visit to this charming restaurant. 


 

  

Here's where what I call my "Single Diner Assessment" module kicks in.  I have a series of parameters by which I judge any dining experience, but particularly when dining alone.

 First Contact

Here is one of the few areas in which Maya del Sol fell just a bit short in my assessment.   When I entered I requested a table for one and the hostess uttered the dreaded, "Just one?"   I took a deep breath and responded (probably just a bit snarkily), "Yes.  I am dining alone tonight so I only need a table for one."  She paused for a second, then smiled and said, "Right this way, Sir."  In general, she was quite pleasant and I know she didn't mean anything by her use of the word, "just."

Seating

As a solo diner, I absolutely don't mind when they take me to a two-top table.  After all, why waste a huge table on a busy night?  The two-top booths at Maya del Sol are a bit on the small side and I can imagine with two people they might feel crowded.  But for one, it was a comfortable location with a nice view of the dining room.

Second Contact

Here again, there were two minor irritating moments.  The person who came to pour water asked me if I was expecting another person.  When I said, "No," he paused with a strange look on his face and said, "Oh, I guess I should remove the other place setting."  He then stood there, apparently waiting for a response, so I said, "Yes, that might be a good idea."  I actually found it humorous until the server came up, looked at the table and said, "Are you dining alone tonight?"

 

At this point, I had a minor snarky moment again and said (quite pointedly), "Yes.  I am sitting here alone and I intend to have dinner alone.  Is that ok with you?" 

 

OK, OK.  I know . . . that was a bit abrupt, but after three times I think I was just a bit sensitive.  To her credit, the server laughed, broke the tension, and spent the rest of the meal both attentive and funny.  In fact, she and I bonded by laughing about some high-maintenance diners who had been sitting near me.  Overall, once we became friends, the rest of the experience was superior.

 

The Meal

 

 

Of course (as I have often stated), the meal is the point!  Here Maya del Sol gets very high points from me.  The chips and salsa (a seemingly ubiquitous accompaniment at all Mexican restaurants) were far better than any I have had in a long, long time.  The chips were clearly home-made and the two salsas were both just on the right side of spicy for me.   I detest what I call "painful food" so I often avoid salsa because it burns my mouth.  These two (one green, one red) were superb!

  

I indulged in a margarita (actually, two of them).  Again, this was an excellent choice.  They use top-quality tequila and the drinks are made fresh without any pre-packaged mixes.  This was a true and tasty cocktail made with fresh lime juice and served "up."

Because I was scarfing down the chips at such a rate, I realized that I did not require a full meal.  As a result, I ordered from the appetizer menu and decided on their Ceviche Trio.  You can get a full description by taking a look at the Maya del Sol menu, but the three portions were Piña Colada, Coctel de Camaron and Tradicional.  Here's a shot I took with my phone camera.  Wow!  I loved all three.

  

The Exit

 

When I left, the server engaged me in conversation and thanked me for coming.  The hostess also stopped me, asked about my experience and invited me to return.  In general, they left me with a very positive feeling as a single diner.


 

 

Maya del Sol is located at 144 S Oak Park Ave, Oak Park, IL 60302, just a few steps south of the Oak Park Green Line CTA stop. 

During nicer weather, they have an astonishingly lovely outdoor patio for drinking/dining!


 

 

¡Hasta luego!

 

Epicuriously Yours,

Tommy Hensel

Table For One Please

  

 

Solo dining in a group

The vast number of blogs available now have renewed my interest in figures of speech.  Blogs tend to thrive on rhetorical tools such as . . .

Hyperbole (deliberate and obvious exaggeration used for effect): "Oh my God!  It took a million hours to get a reservation at Next Restaurant and I spent a zillion dollars on the meal.  But it rocked!"

Satire (the use of irony, sarcasm, ridicule, or the like, in exposing, denouncing, or deriding vice, folly, etc.): "Joe disguised himself and snuck past his fellow P.E.T.A. protestors to visit the Bacon Festival.  After gorging himself on bacon, Joe drove home, but stopped at Whole Foods to purchase some organic, sustainable, eco-friendly heartburn relief remedy.  Sadly, he was tragically killed when a truck carrying hundreds of pigs overturned and crushed his hybrid car in the parking lot."



You get the point.  So why fight the rhetorical trend?  Today, I focus on one of my favorites, the oxymoron, a rhetorical device in which two seemingly contradictory words or phrases are used together for effect.  For devoted foodies out there, we all know curious, culinary oxymorons such as:

jumbo shrimp
boneless ribs
dry martini
vegetarian meatloaf

But my personal exploration in today's blog is the oxymoronic concept:

SOLO DINING IN A GROUP



One of my favorite websites for Chicago information is a superb site called The Local Tourist created by the lovely and talented Theresa Carter.  This is one of the absolute "must visit" websites for anyone looking for information on Chicago.  Their tagline is "Experience the fascination of a tourist, feel the comfort of the local" and that's just what you find on the site.  One of the best things about the site is that they are entirely editorial with no "pay for play."  All of the information and advice is well-researched and comprehensive.  While drilling down for restaurant information, I found information on a brilliant program which they call "Chef's Table."

According to the Local Tourist website, "In top restaurants there's a table reserved for a select few, providing exclusive access and one-on-one interaction with the chef. Unfortunately, that exclusivity comes with a hefty price tag, one that's out of reach for most people. At our Chef's Table Events, foodies meet the chef in an intimate - and affordable - setting. Chef's Table events are an ideal way to explore Chicago's culinary scene without spending a fortune."  Previous Chef's Table events have been hosted by an amazingly eclectic blend of great Chicago restaurants, including Savor Saveur, Osteria Via Stato, D.O.C. Wine Bar, Smoke Daddy, Nacional 27, Park 52, Salsa 17, Fizz Bar & Grill, LOKaL and redFLAME.  



I thought to myself, "What an excellent idea!"   Here's where the oxymoron comes in.  For only $25 per event, you can experience the joys of new restaurants as a single diner, yet be in a group of like-minded people at the same time.  Single in a group!  Oxymoron, yes . . . and super fun as well.  

I have personally attended three in the past few months at La Taberna Tapas (1301 South Halsted), Blokes and Birds (3343 North Clark) and most recently at The Red Canary (695 North Milwaukee).  What's even more incredible, however, is the deal I got as part of the Local Tourist's "Chef's Table Membership Program."


The website says, "Chef's Table events are an ideal way to explore Chicago's culinary scene without spending a fortune. Make it even more affordable with a Chef's Table Membership. You'll receive ten tickets for the price of eight, plus you'll be the first notified of new events and will get to save your seat before anybody else. You can attend ten events on your own or you can bring a friend. Because attendance is limited at these intimate events a maximum of two tickets can be used for each one. It's perfect for couples, with five built-in date packages! This exclusive program is limited to just ten people at a time."



Woo hoo!  For only $200 I purchased 10 spots.  If you're into deals, this is the "deal to end all deals" as far as I'm concerned.  The price is a steal, and you get great food, great conversation, new friendships and the wonderful oxymoronic ability to be out alone yet in a group at the same time.  Just to give you an idea of just how awesome these events can be, here are some links to photos and information on the most recent events, all of which I attended:














At the moment, there are still four memberships left available, so if you are like me and think this is a great idea, you had better buy one fast!

Upcoming Chef's Table events include:

June - Shiraz on the Water
July - City Provisions at Chicago Rooftop Gardens
August - Quince
September - Chicago Firehouse



Anyone who feels awkward at the concept of dining alone can easily edge themselves into the world of solo dining with a program like this Chef's Table.  Even if you're not a solo diner, this is an excellent way to explore the city, meet new friends and just basically have a really good time in the process!


Epicuriously Yours,
Tommy Hensel
Table For One, Please!

Sushi In The Suburbs - Single Dining in Orland Park

Although most of my dining experiences occur in the city of Chicago, I actually live and work in the suburbs.  I live in Berwyn and work in Palos Hills, so some of my food explorations take place in those areas.  One of my favorite meals is sushi.  Love it!  


Chicago has a plethora of excellent sushi restaurants, but the suburbs do not fall short in that capacity either.  This blog is the first in a series I will call "Sushi In The Suburbs" as I explore many of the great options available to diners outside of the Chicago city limits.




Today's post highlights a surprisingly excellent spot called Big Tuna located at 13137 South LaGrange Road in Orland Park, IL.  They also have another location farther south at 19951 South LaGrange Road in Frankfort, IL.  For those who are directionally-challenged, here is the map to find Big Tuna in Orland Park.  I recently tried them out twice as a solo diner, once for lunch and once for dinner.


This is a recent, new addition to the many restaurants along that corridor of LaGrange road in Orland Park.  During their "grand opening" period, they are offering an amazing "all-you-can-eat" special if you sit at the sushi bar during lunch.  This special may end soon, so if you're looking for a great deal on some tasty and well-crafted sushi, head on out there sooner than later.  Besides that special, they also have excellent prices on their high-quality food for both lunch and dinner.  Here's a link to the Big Tuna Sushi menu and I'm sure you can see how much better some of these prices are than prices you might see in downtown Chicago.


For lunch, their specials include miso soup and ginger salad.  My only negative comment about the food at Big Tuna would be this salad.  I love the ginger dressing, but the salad is simply iceberg lettuce slathered in the tasty dressing.  In my opinion, iceberg lettuce is the most useless of all food products and should be banned from use in any restaurant.  If you can get past the bad lettuce, however, the rest of the meal is certain to be superb.  Their miso soup is on the lighter side as far as density of flavor, but it is still excellent.  The highlight of any sushi experience, of course, is the main item itself.  Big Tuna has definitely hired some superior chefs and uses high-quality product.  The sushi is on par with any I have had at the more "trendy" and "expensive" restaurants in Chicago.


For lunch, I tried their unbelievable priced Sushi Lunch consisting of California Roll, 5 pieces of assorted sushi, soup and salad for $10.99.  For dinner, also choosing an option that kept me from having to make too many decisions, I chose the Sushi Deluxe with California Roll, 10 pieces of sushi, soup and salad for $22.00.  They have a small but decent wine list and I have found that Sauvignon Blanc pairs quite well with sushi!


As far as being a solo diner, they did an excellent job of making me feel absolutely welcome.  The greeting, seating location, service and meal were all good and made me feel welcome.  The interior of the restaurant is a bit small and it can get a bit noisy due to the concentration of diners, but overall the noise was not too intrusive.  I have since returned twice more with friends and would absolutely recommend this spot both for sushi virgins and for experienced sushi connoisseurs.


Epicuriously Yours,
Tommy Hensel
Table For One, Please!

La Dolce Vita! Solo Italian Dining in Chicago

I have often joked that you could stand in any random neighborhood of Chicago, toss a stone and probably hit at least one Italian restaurant.  Short of being in Italy itself, I don't think I have ever experienced such a huge concentration of Italian in any one city.  In Chicago, the Italian restaurants run the gamut from inexpensive 'hole in the wall' type of spots to some incredible four-star dining experiences.  Of the many I have sampled, one of my favorites in the mid-range of price is Prosecco, located at 710 North Wells Street in the River North section of Chicago.


On a recent Tuesday afternoon, just after 5:30, I left 
Peak Performance Health Care, my chiropractor's office in the Old Town area of Chicago.  Rather than walk back to the El and head home, I decided to take a bus south to the loop and find someplace to grab dinner.  As the bus was traveling down Wells Street, I happened to glance out of the window as we passed Prosecco.  On a whim, I jumped off at the next stop and decided to give it a "solo dining" try.



Here's where what I call my "Single Diner Assessment" module kicks in.  I have a series of parameters by which I judge any dining experience, but particularly when dining alone.

  1. First Contact: How am I greeted?  How is my interaction with the host/hostess?  How do they make me feel?
  2. Seating: Where do they seat me?
  3. Second Contact: How is my first interaction with the server(s)?  How long do I wait?  How do they make me feel?
  4. The Meal: Does the menu discriminate against single diners?  How am I treated during the meal?  Do I ever feel rushed to finish?
  5. The Exit: When I leave, does anyone engage me in conversation or say anything to me?



So how did Prosecco add up?



  • FIRST CONTACT - Of all my solo dining experiences (with the possible exception of ZED451), Prosecco wins this award.  When I entered they immediately greeted me cordially.  I asked for a table for one and was immediately seated.  The entire attitude of the host and hostess was almost to treat me with extra special care as a solo diner, not to marginalize me as some lesser establishments often do.  

    Special note must also be made of the amazing interior decoration.  The Prosecco website proclaims, "Diners will be attracted to Prosecco's inviting mix of fine food and fine wine graciously served in an art-filled space reminiscent of the faded, gilded beauty of Venice. Venice's famous Piazza San Marco has been called 'The Drawing Room of Europe', and the partners of Prosecco have created a similar drawing room atmosphere in their new dining spot. Experiencing Chicago's first proseccheria is as easy, elegant and enjoyable as a glass of its namesake beverage."  This is a beautiful restaurant which lends a wonderful positive feeling to any dining experience.  

  • SEATING - They checked my coat and umbrella and immediately escorted me to a very nice table - not stuck in the back corner, not isolated alone in the center of the restaurant.  This is one of the major criteria by which I judge the quality of a restaurant.  The good ones treat solo diners no differently than anyone else.  The bad ones treat us like we are somehow wasting their time by taking up space that could be used by more people.  Prosecco got this one right, too.

  • SECOND CONTACT - Within seconds, a server arrived to fill my water glass, hand me the wine list and menu and make sure that I liked my table.  She then offered me a free glass of Prosecco.  This particular server was very friendly, so I introduced myself and we spent the rest of the meal on a "first-name basis."  She offered incredibly insightful advice about the menu and the wine list and possible wine pairings.  Again, this was a very positive experience as a solo diner.  I did not get a single bad vibe from anyone.  Another server, in fact, came by my table just to see how I was enjoying the meal.  And when I accidentally dropped a fork on the floor, someone was there to pick it up and hand me a new one before I could even lean over and pick it up myself.  Superb service!

  • MEAL - This is, of course, the central point of having a dining experience and Prosecco definitely excels in this department.  They served a wonderful warm bread with both butter and an excellent homemade caponata.  

    As a starter, I tried Carpaccio d'Anatra (duck carpaccio with arugula).  For my entree, I opted for Gamberoni in Crosta di Pistacchio, a pistachio-crusted jumbo prawn with roasted red pepper puree.  

    Unfortunately, I forgot to write down the names of the wines I paired with the two courses, but they were both superb.  The server suggested a great white with the Carpaccio and a superb Rhone blend for the shrimp.  Wow!  Truly an excellent food/wine pairing experience all the way around.

  • THE EXIT - Many restaurants seem to have a strange moment of ignoring people when they leave.  My recent review of Custom House Tavern is a perfect example of that.  Here, however, they were far from distant.  They asked me about my experience, thanked me for coming, etc.  Overall, one of the better "exit" experiences I have had as a solo diner.




I definitely give Prosecco very high marks as a solo diner.  To them I say, "Grazie mille!"  Try them out soon, whether alone or in a group!



The Dessert Postscript

After leaving Prosecco that night, I had every intention of heading home.  On my walk to the El, however, I passed ZED451 and decided to grab one more glass of wine.  I sat at the bar and both a bartender and server suggested a new dessert that had just been added to their menu.  I am not often a big fan of dessert, but I figured, "What the heck?  Everyone here says it's great, so I might as well try it out."

Wow!  If they keep it on the menu, you must definitely head to ZED451 and try out the Chocolate Creme Brulee Cake.  Here's a "not so great phone cam" shot.  The dessert consists of a flourless, dark chocolate torte with a chocolate wafer, fresh raspberries, a scoop of home-made raspberry-chocolate sorbet and in the opposite corner there is a shot glass filled with champagne and partially frozen raspberries.  They instruct you to use a swizzle stick to muddle the raspberries in the champagne, creating a "smoothie."  All this for only $10!

Truly an amazing conclusion to an incredible solo dining evening.


Epicuriously Yours,
Tommy Hensel
Table For One, Please!

Dining alone when menus discriminate

Dining out alone can be a wonderful experience.  I often find it relaxing to have a long, leisurely meal while reading a book.  Depending on the restaurant, the "people watching" might even be as entertaining (or more so) than the book.  Over the years, I have become friends with many servers, managers and bartenders as a result of my solo dining experiences.  And that's exactly how I approach most of my dining - as an experience, not just "eating." 

With any restaurant visit, many things come together to create that positive experience.  In earlier posts I mention several factors that are significant to me: the greeting, where they seat me, how the server approaches me, etc.  But food always remains the central focus of my dining experiences.  The quality of the meal is certainly significant, but one tiny little issue has the potential to ruin my potential enjoyment  even before food has a chance to arrive at the table.





All of the following are drawn directly from menus in restaurants I have visited recently.  See if you can find the common theme.

Charcuterie Boards: selection of homemade pâtés, terrines and saucissons
12.95 per person - service for 2 or 4 

Ceviche Sampling Platter: a tasting of all the ceviches above
10.95 per person for two or more

Paella: Priced per serving, minimum two people

And on one menu, the (seemingly) ubiqutious phrase: Minimum two guests/priced per person.





The following clip from the film "Network" aptly sums up my response to menu items like those listed above:


OK.  Perhaps that's overstating my case, but you get the point.  By the way, R.I.P. to the amazing Sidney Lumet (June 25, 1924 – April 9, 2011) who directed "Network."  We just lost one of the great geniuses of the filmmaking world.  The unbelievable scene above has some particular relevance today, maybe even more than it did in 1976.





Back to dining . . . 

Obviously, the theme is "minimum two guests."  One of the menus even goes so far as to say "service for 2 or 4."  Really?  Three of us can't order that?


I am sure some of the friends and readers in the restaurant industry are now feeling defensive and will surely write me to say things like "Sometimes the cost and preparation of a dish make it impossible to create single portions."  Guess what?  I don't believe you!  I'm not trying to sound impertinent (that word choice is for Mary, Beth and Jill), but if you can make a charcuterie tray for two then you can surely cut it in half for one.  And as for paella, the two restaurants I found who list that item as only available for two have each at some point had a daily special that included paella for one, so I know it can be done.   Any skewer of meat "for two" could be created for one and any portion can be adjusted.





(DEEP BREATHS.  OMMMMMMM.)

OK, I am now calm and stepping off of my soapbox.





I do understand that restaurants aren't purposefully discriminating.  They are making choices based on food cost and, often, on the desires of the chef as to how he/she wishes to create and present menu items.  They honestly believe that some dishes are impossible to serve to one person.

I still think there should be some kind of middle ground.

What's the solution to this dilemma?  I would suggest several things.


  1. Ask them if they can adjust the portions.  Of the four restaurants whose menu items are listed earlier in this post, only one of them was willing to adjust and offer me a single portion.  The other three said, essentially, that is was not possible (BOO!).  Nevertheless, it never hurts to ask.  I don't believe that old maxim "The customer is always right" because many times customers are morons, but sometimes the customer has a justifiable issue and is, indeed, "right."  Any restaurant that finds a positive solution is one that will stay at the top of my solo dining list.


  2. Mention your issue to the owner or manager.
     This type of menu item is not something that will ruin a meal for me, but if it's important to you then restaurants should know about it.  After all, if they don't know there's a problem, they can't even begin to address it.



  3. If the food item is something you really would love to try and if the restaurant is good enough for a second visit, then go back with friends and enjoy!
     To answer a question asked me by several readers, "No, I don't always eat alone.  I often dine with friends."  Some restaurants are better with a group.  Those are the ones you won't see in this blog but from time to time I may mention some of my more extraordinary group dining experiences here.




In the interest of full disclosure, I must admit that I approached this blog post with one somewhat erroneous preconceived notion.  As I started scouring the internet to find discriminatory menus, I assumed that one of the worst offenders would be fondue restaurants.  After all, fondue is specifically designed as a "meal to share."  So I sent an email to two of the major fondue restaurants in Chicago.  I mentioned to them that their online menus were entirely focused on groups of two or more, and I asked them if they could accommodate a solo diner.  One of them never responded to my query nor did they respond to a follow-up email (check them off my list).  The other one, however, responded within 24 hours and said "Absolutely.  We would love to accommodate your solo dining request."  Sweet!  I give myself a gentle hand slap for assuming they would fail the test. 

FYI - the positive respondent was The Melting Pot at 609 North Dearborn in Chicago.  That particularly pleased me, because the original Melting Pot restaurant opened in Tallahassee, FL when I was there as an undergraduate at Florida State University in the mid-1980s.  I have very fond memories of parties, dates and family meals at that restaurant, so I definitely plan to check this one out in Chicago! 





Hmmm.  I think it might be time for some fondue!  Maybe at the upcoming Dining Out For Life event on April 28, 2011!  What do you think?


Epicuriously Yours,
Tommy Hensel
Table For One, Please!

Blogette: Dining Out For Life on Thursday, April 28

From time to time I will be posting brief items about specific events which might interest the readers of this blog.  I will call these short items, "Blogettes."





We all love to eat out, right?  What better combination than enjoying a wonderful meal AND supporting a great cause at the same time?  On Thursday, April 28, 2011 Chicago's EdgeAlliance presents the 18th annual "Dining Out For Life" event.  This is part of a worldwide day of dining and there are restaurants in over 58 cities participating in North American and Nigeria!


According to the Dining Out For Life Chicago website, "On Thursday, April 28, 2011, join us to celebrate food, friends and a great cause at our 18th annual Dining Out For Life. Last year, Chicago raised over $100,000 to continue its mission of providing housing with life services to women, children and men living with HIV/AIDS. This year we hope to raise $250,000. You can help make a difference by joining us along with 58 other cities throughout North America and Nigeria and dine out on April 28th.  Dine Out. Fight AIDS."




And for those of you outside of the Chicagoland area, here is a link to participating restaurants in the other cities.


Epicuriously Yours,
Tommy Hensel
Table For One, Please!

¡Viva España! Tapas in Chicago

One of my favorite dining experiences, either alone or with friends, is to visit a tapas restaurant.  For those of you who are unfamiliar with the concept of tapas, there's a great definition of tapas on About.com.  Wikipedia also have a fairly comprehensive (and surprisingly accurate) entry on both the definition and the history of tapas.


Tapas are small, appetizer-sized portions of food, perfect for sharing with friends.  For the solo diner they can be a perfect meal solution.  If you're particularly hungry, you can order several tapas.  If you're just slightly "peckish" then one or maybe two might be plenty for you.  When you are with a group, tapas are a great opportunity for many people to try a single bite or two of many different things.  For the solo diner, the tapas (meant to be shared in many restaurants), will be more like "small plates" or appetizer-sized portions.





There are several excellent tapas restaurants in Chicago.  Among my favorites are 1492, Mercat a la Plancha and Cafe Iberico.  Ever since moving to Chicago in 2008, however, my favorite has been and continues to be Cafe Babareeba located at 2024 North Halsted Street in Chicago.


Cafe Babareeba opened in 1986 and has set the tone for great tapas dining in Chicago ever since.  As one of the Lettuce Entertain You family of restaurants, Cafe Babareeba de
finitely prides itself on both the quality of the food and the quality of the service.  The restaurant is owned by chef Gabino Sotelino who is also Chef-Owner of Mon Ami Gabi, Stripburger, Community Canteen and El Segundo Sol, Cafe Babareeba's sister restaurant in Las Vegas.


As a Lettuce Entertain You frequent diner, I try to visit as many of their restaurants as possible in order to build up my points and bank their amazing gift certificates.  Last year, Cafe Babareeba amounted to at least 70% of my LEYE Frequent Diner points.  As you can tell, I really love this restaurant.


Thursday of this week I had a rehearsal in Chicago for a cabaret show, part of the Chicago Cabaret Professionals annual "March Series" at Davenport's Piano Bar & Cabaret.  


Since the rehearsal didn't start until 7:30, I took the El into the city and stopped off at Cafe Babareeba for a pre-rehearsal nosh.  When I arrived at 5:30 p.m. the place was already quite crowded, partially because the weather was finally nice enough for the outdoor deck to be open . . . but largely because it's such a popular restaurant, particularly for the people who live in that part of Lincoln Park.





In the spirit of full disclosure, I must admit that because I am such a frequent diner here, they always give me excellent service as a solo diner.  But casting my mind back to my first few times eating at Cafe Babareeba alone, they have always treated me extremely well and never once made me feel awkward about dining alone.  From the moment you enter and they greet you, through the meal where servers and managers will be constantly checking on you, to the final exit when they thank you for coming . . . this restaurant does everything well.





Well, nearly everything.  I do have one complaint.  Cafe Babareeba is renowned for their excellent paella.  Unfortunately, they will only prepare it for a minimum of two people.  


Not fair to the solo diner!  


But I have hope that I can lobby them to adjust this policy, so I'll keep you apprised on that campaign.





They also have frequent special events.  I have attended their Paella Cooking Class as well as their Bodega Babareeba (a wine tasting paired with tapas).  The website keeps you up to date on all of these cool events, and I highly recomment the two I have attended.  You might also consider signing up for their text club.  Simply text CBBR to 30364 and you will get some great free offers.  Most recently I have redeemed offers for a free Serrano ham plate, a free paella for one, and a free dessert platter.  Not bad!





The Cafe Babareeba menu has a huge number of potential tapas combinations.  They even have a gluten free menu for those of you who are following that particular special diet.  One of their drink specialties, of course, is sangria and they have quite a few options for the sangria lover.  They only serve Spanish wine and as a survey of Spanish wine regions, their wine list is quite excellent.  They also have a large listing of Sherries and a nice selection of Spanish beers.  I tend to be rather partial to their rose cava.


On this recent visit I had a glass of rose cava with the grilled octopus.  I followed that by a glass of the Martin Codax tempranillo paired with the seared sausage platter.  Believe me, after those two tapas, I was more than full.  When you do visit, I would suggest trying the bacon-wrapped dates.  That is my favorite menu item, but after eating nearly everything on their menu I have yet to find anything that I didn't at least like - though some more than others.





One of the most appealing things on the Cafe Babareeba menu, at least for me as a solo diner, are their pintxos.  These are bite-sized tapas popular in the bars of Northern Spain.  Each one is good for about two bites, perfect for the solo diner looking for an appetizer.  They currently have six pinxtos on the menu, but they nearly always have at least one or two "special" pintxos, so ask your server.


Of course, I can't leave this review without mentioning their dessert tapas!  They have several bite-sized desserts, but my favorite option is their dessert platter which consists of Profiterole, Daily Sorbet, Crema Catalana, Fruit Pound Cake, Marcona Almond Tart, Spanish Brownie.  This is definitely one that is better shared when you are with a friend . . . but if you're a brave solo diner then I would suggest ordering the pintxo platter, one other item (maybe the bacon-wrapped dates) and then this dessert platter.  I would guess that you would be full and happy at that point.  Oh, yes . . . and pair the first part with that rose cava.  Yum!





As always, I just made myself hungry again.


Epicuriously Yours,
Tommy Hensel
Table For One, Please!

Eating adverbs: The power of language when dining alone

There is probably not a single native of the USA who grew up in the 1970s who isn't familiar with Schoolhouse Rock and the wonderful educational, musical cartoons.  One of my favorite parts of the series was America Rock.  How many of us can still sing the Preamble to the Constitution?



To this day, that's how I remember it and I can still sing it!  What does this have to do with dining?  Not a darned thing, but it was too much fun to pass up the chance to listen to that fun song again.  

One of the other Schoolhouse Rock series, however, was Grammar Rock.  Here's where we begin to move back into the world of solo dining.  First, a refresher course in basic grammar.





Today's lesson, class, is on ADVERBS.

Wikipedia contains a comprehensive definition of "adverb," but wouldn't it be more fun to revisit Grammar Rock?  Here are the words to "Lolly Lolly Lolly Get Your Adverbs Here."  And here's the fun video!



Now that we have reviewed the function of adverbs, let me explain how this relates (for me) to the issue of dining alone.





When you enter a restaurant, one of the first interactions is often with a host or hostess.  Later, the most important interactions generally involve your server.  In dealing with all of these people, my biggest pet grammatical peeve concerns the following two popular adverbs:

JUST

ONLY




How many times have you heard the phrase, "Just one today?"  Or perhaps, "Only one?"  For me, that's like nails on a chalkboard.  Think about the synonyms of those two words: merely, solely.  You might as well say to me, "Wow!  I feel sorry for you, that you have to dine alone."

Of course I realize that most people don't know they are even using these words.  I ignore it when I perceive that the person doesn't mean anything negative.  There are times, however, when those phrases are uttered with an attitude of disdain or condescension - often accompanied by a raised eybrow or a disapproving glance.





I promise you, I am not paranoid.  This does happen!





In fact, I recently had what I would call the "triple whammy" experience in a restaurant.  When I arrived, I decided to head to the bar for a drink before requesting a table.  The bartender came over and said, "Are you expecting someone?"  I replied, "No, I am going to have a drink before eating."  He then responded, "So you're alone?"  

Well, duh!  Didn't I just say that?

After the bar, I headed to the host station and requested a table for one to which the hostess replied, "Just one tonight?"

Hello?!  What did I just say?

Finally, when the server came to the table she asked me, "Only one tonight?"  I replied, "Yes, I am dining alone."  She looked perplexed, glanced at the other place settings and said, "Oh, well I suppose I should clear away these other place settings then."  I was tempted to reply (in a sarcastic tone), "Yes.  I am a single person who is dining alone and I don't really need six forks, three knives and six spoons . . . if that's not too much trouble for you."  OK, OK.  I know that would have been passive-aggressive, but nobody's perfect.





So all of you who work in the restaurant industry as hosts, hostesses, servers or bartenders - please consider your adverbs.  Wouldn't it be nicer to greet a patron with something like, "Hello.  How may we help you today?"  Or, "What can I do for you?"  Either of those allow a diner to request a table for one.  Then for goodness sake, don't respond by asking, "Just one?" as if you somehow can't believe what you heard.

For servers, check with the host/hostess before stopping by the table so that you already know the diner is alone.  If you don't have the time to do that, then think about saying something like, "Are you expecting anyone else today?"  Or, "Are you dining alone tonight?"  Either of those will give you the information you need without making the diner feel judged.

I realize that this may sound defensive, and perhaps it is.  But something as simple as a minor change in language can have a profound impact on the experience of a solo diner.  If nothing else, pause before you consider using the words "just" or "only."





Thanks for listening, and I promise there won't be a grammar test in my next post.  

I may ask you to sing the Preamble to the Constitution though, just for fun!


Epicuriously Yours,
Tommy Hensel
Table For One, Please!

Pre-theater solo dining in the Chicago Loop

 I recently had two excellent solo dining experiences in downtown Chicago and wanted to take a moment to share them with you.


 

The Gage

Recently, my friend Ron de Jesus had invited me to a preview of his exciting new dance company, Ron de Jesus Dance.  The preview and party took place in downtown Chicago.  I arrived downtown early and extremely hungry.  I suddenly recalled that we were in the heart of Chicago Restaurant Week 2011.  One of the better downtown restaurants in my experience is a wonderful spot called The Gage located on Michigan Avenue just across the street from Millennium Park.  I had been there with friends several times, but never as a solo diner.  Since their restaurant week menu was reasonably priced, I decided to give The Gage a try as a solo diner.  

 
According to their website, "The Gage is a 300 seat Restaurant and Tavern steps from Millennium Park. Situated at 24 South Michigan Avenue we are open late, seven days a week. We invite you to savor our delicious, upscale comfort food, fine wines, boutique beers and whiskeys while enjoying the relaxing ambience of our vintage decor."  Their Executive Chef Dirk Flanigan was recently named a Semi-Finalist, Best Chef Great Lakes Region in the 2011 James Beard Awards.  It's a bit difficult to categorize The Gage, but they call themselves a gastropub.  In essence, it has a 'pub-like' atmosphere but with a far more upscale version of food and cocktails than a traditional pub.


Using the "single diner assessment" model from a recent post, let's see how The Gage measures up:

 

First Contact

 

Excellent!  When I first walked in (more like blown in by the icy Arctic winds), they greeted me cordially.  When I requested a table for one, they immediately checked their chart, handed off a menu to someone.  They didn't ask if I would "prefer to sit at the bar" nor did they offer any type of "strange look" or "momentary hesitation" about my desire to dine alone.  Their attitude was precisely what one would hope to find in any good restaurant, treating me with respect and no different than a larger party.

Seating

 

Even when the First Contact is handled well, the seating will sometimes determine whether or not a restaurant is truly friendly to a solo diner.  All too often, they will guide the single diner to a two top next to the kitchen or at a busy area where servers congregate or bring dirty dishes.  In the case of The Gage, they sat me at a two top in a central section of the restaurant - a nice choice which allowed me to "people watch" throughout the meal.

 

Second Contact

 

The Gage did a great job here, too.  The server was prompt, polite and efficient.  I could tell he was a bit harried because it was restaurant week.  I think of restaurant week as "amateur diner" week.  No offense intended, but it's definitely a time when people who normally don't dine out a lot will indulge.  I would imagine the servers find it a bit frustrating, dealing with people who are not necessarily easy.  My server was definitely having some minor issues with a table near mine, dealing with some strangely demanding restaurant week patrons.  Nevertheless, he did a superlative job all around.

The Meal

 

What can I say?  I love The Gage and the menu is excellent.  I decided to give their restaurant week menu a whirl and indulged in a salad, hangar steak and a white chocolate dessert.  Everything was excellent and they didn't blink an eye when I requested to substitute a vegetable for the potatoes that normally come with the steak.  The Gage had an amazing dinner menu, their wine list is superb and they have some intriguing cocktails .  This is definitely in my "Top Ten" list in Chicago.  Although I didn't take a photo of my meal, I did find a picture of one of their signature dishes, Fish & Chips!  Yum!

 

The Exit

 

Once again, they excelled here.  As I was preparing the leave, the server thanked me.  On the way out, the host and hostess thanked me and asked me about my experience.  Overall, this final moment of leaving a restaurant is significant to me because it is the last taste (as it were) of the dining experience.


 

Custom House Tavern

 

 

Last Friday I had two tickets to see the Joffrey Ballet performance of The Merry Widow at the amazing Auditorium Theatre in the Chicago Loop .  A good friend was meeting me at 7 p.m. at the theatre, so I took the El to the south loop earlier and wandered around to find someplace interesting for dinner.  I recalled over a year ago that another friend had taken me to Custom House Tavern, located on the corner of Congress and Dearborn .  The meal we had then was superb, so I decided to give Custom House Tavern a try as a solo diner.

 

 

According to the blurb at Open Table (one of my favorite online restaurant booking sites), "Custom House Tavern Chef Perry Hendrix offers a modern take on the American tavern favoring local sources and embracing seasonality served in a sophisticated, urban setting with warm inviting service."  In my opinion, Custom House is not particularly "tavern-like," at least in my definition of a tavern.  I find it to be a lovely, sleek, upscale dining establishment with a definite flair for intriguing food and superb presentation.

First Contact

Again, just like The Gage experience, this one was excellent.  No hesitation, no offer to seat me at the bar - just a pleasant greeting and immediate service.


Seating

Custom House Tavern has some comfortable "booths for two" which amount to a booth version of a two top table.  They sat me at one of those in a very nice section of the restaurant, with a full view of most of the room.  Another excellent seating choice for a single diner.

 

Second Contact


The server was really excellent.  On this particular evening, I had brought along a book to read during the meal, so when I was seated I arranged all of my things and put the book on the table.  When the server arrived, he glanced down and exclaimed, "I love that book!"  We established an immediate rapport.  The book in question is "The Wine Bible" by Karen MacNeil  - truly one of the best books I have ever seen about wine.  Throughout the meal, the server and I had some intriguing conversations about wine and pairing with food.  At his suggestion, I tried a couple of surprisingly good wines that night.

 

The Meal

 

Wow!  I love the food at this restaurant.  I started out with the chicken liver terrine and for the main course had duck.  There wasn't time for dessert (I was running late to the ballet), but their dessert menu was very tempting.  Both the pate and the duck were exquisite.  I know that sounds like hyperbole, but it was honestly one of the best meals I have had in a while.  The duck in particular was prepared better than any duck I have had thus far in Chicago.

 

The Exit

 

My only minor complaint with the experience at Custom House Tavern was my exit.  As I bundled up and left the restaurant, there was no interface with staff.  I know it was because of a busy, pre-theater dinner crowd . . . but it would have been nice to have someone just say, "Have a good night!"  This is such a minor complaint, though, that I would still give Custom House Tavern a huge "yes" as a place to try out as a solo diner.

 

 


I think I just made myself hungry again!

 

Epicuriously Yours,

Tommy Hensel

Table For One, Please!

Why dine alone?

One of the most frequent questions I seem to get here is a variation of, "Why do you go out alone all the time?"  Since this seems to be such a prevalent question, I thought I would take a few moments to discuss what I see as the most frequent motivations for solo dining.

I am not always by myself.  I frequently dine with friends.  I love the social interaction of joining friends for good food and drink and great conversation.  Just this week I have dined out four times and all of these occasions were with friends.  But I also love to dine out alone.  I suppose you could say it's my hobby.  When I have free time and extra income, my three greatest passions are reading, good food and fine wine.  When you put those three pieces together, dining out alone is the perfect solution!



There are probably dozens of good reasons to dine out alone, but I tend to think of four general categories of motivation:

  1. Travel
  2. Whim
  3. Purpose
  4. Dysfunction

Let me discuss each on in turn.  I bet you're dying to find out what I mean by "dysfunction," huh?



TRAVEL

The largest percentages of solo diners are probably travelers, primarily business travelers.  On a recent business trip, I ended up eating two meals in airports and several alone in restaurants surrounding the hotel in which I stayed.  I would estimate that at least 75% of the airport diners were alone, most working or reading.  

At the hotel, at least 50% of the diners seemed to be business people or travelers dining alone.  There's not much to say about this, really, because it's such an obvious experience.  Because I do travel frequently, I am working on an upcoming blog post to discuss solo airport dining in particular.  If you happen to be a frequent traveler, I would love to get your insight about excellent airport dining experiences.  And just for balance, let me know any 'not so nice' experiences as well!  



WHIM

Consider this scenario . . . 

You are out running errands.  Perhaps you find yourself taking a tangential trip to your favorite boutique to check out their spectacular sale on shoes.  You check the time and realize that it is getting rather late and you are suddenly starving.  Well, since you are there already you might as well pop into that cool new restaurant on the corner.  Voila!  You are a solo diner.

Or perhaps this scenario (much for common for me personally) . . . 

You are out running errands.  You pass a restaurant and something catches your attention - the signage, some music, outdoor patio, etc.  You stop and check out their menu and think, "Hmm.  That sounds kind of good.  I might as well grab a bite to eat."  Voila!  You are a solo diner.

There are plenty of other scenarios like these that could drive someone into a restaurant alone.  The common denominator here is that spontaneous decision, usually driven by hunger or time constraint.  Or, in my case, often driven by the "empty refrigerator syndrome" where I realize that if I do go home, there is nothing to eat.  The other choice would be to grocery shop, but that's always dangerous when you're hungry.  In this particular instance, I will eat out and then go shopping for food.  This keeps me from filling my cart up with highly-questionable comfort food items.

The only downside to spontaneous solo dining, at least for me, can be the lack of anything to do while you are eating.  Here's what I mean.  Many times when I dine alone, I take along a book or some sort of work.  During recent dining excursions I have read books, written 'thank you' notes, journaled and drafted grant narratives.  I know . . . that last one sounds like too much fun for one person to have, doesn’t it?  

My point is that I generally take something along to fill the time.  With a spontaneous decision, however, I often find myself with very little to do.  These are the times I either (1) sit at the bar so I can talk to the bartender before/during/after the meal or (2) spend a great deal of time posting on Facebook and/or sending email from my smartphone.  

Either way, I generally end up finding someone to engage in conversation.  If you read my blog post about Mon Ami Gabi you may recall that I referenced 'chatting' with fellow diners.  As a matter of fact, I spent a great deal of time talking to the people around me.  I tend to be rather friendly and dining alone rarely turns into a silent, lonely experience for me.



PURPOSE

Here's where at least 50% of my solo dining experiences begin.  Some of the more common motivations for me to dine alone with purpose include the following:

  • Dining prior to attending a dance, theater or music performance
  • The desire to try out a new restaurant
  • Taking myself out on a "date" for a special occasion (my birthday, a holiday, etc.)
  • Eating out as part of a "staycation"

All of my personal motivations for dining alone are precisely the same motivations that would drive me to dine with friends.  The difference is my personal desire to be alone for some reason.  Sometimes I just relish the energy of enjoying a nice meal and reading a book.  Other times, I have some specific project which requires focus and working while eating makes the job more pleasant.  Now, of course, this blog is a strong motivation for me to try out a few places on my own for the purpose of reviewing the experiences.



DYSFUNCTION

Couldn't wait for this one, huh?

A very small percentage of my personal solo dining experiences have been motivated by one of two somewhat dysfunctional energies: depression or desertion.

It's an unfortunate truth about the human condition that we are sometimes prone to depression.  There are many type of "medication" for this condition, but one of the most common is food.  Comfort food, I guess you could call it.  I recall one particularly horrible moment during a messy breakup.  On the way home from work one day, I found myself in a tremendously horrible emotional space and in need of something to medicate the emotions.  I drove to a strip mall and rented a copy of the film, "Imitation of Life."  I then dropped into the adjoining grocery store and purchased a pint of Ben & Jerry's Coffee Heath Bar Crunch, a huge bag of barbecued potato chips and a box of Kleenex.  Apart from the stomach ache and dehydration from crying too much, I actually felt much better the next day.

But in the more functional of my dysfunctional moments (if that's not an oxymoron), I crave my comfort food from a restaurant rather than at home.  In these moments, I most often identify an excellent restaurant, dress in my nicest clothes and take myself out for a decadent and expensive meal.  It's the dining equivalent of "retail therapy" and it almost always puts me in a much better space without the stomach ache and dehydration.



So what about desertion?

I have had a few unfortunate experiences of being "stood up" on dates.  There's no need to go into details here because I don't want this to become a whiny diatribe, but I have had enough of these bad moments to provide an informed opinion.  The downside of being stood up in a restaurant is fairly obvious.  

There is a potential upside!  

The server(s) will often feel truly horrible for you if they are aware of the situation and will give exceptional service should you choose to stay and dine alone.  Desertion is never fun, but ask yourself this question, "Would you really want to have a meal with the type of person who would stand someone up on a date?"



"It is better to be alone than in bad company."



Why do you dine alone?  I would love to hear back from any of the readers of this blog to find out what motivates you.  And while you're at it, let me know some of your favorite restaurants for solo dining.

Until next time . . .

Epicuriously Yours,
Tommy Hensel
Table For One, Please!

Blogette: Chicago Restaurant Week 2011

From time to time I will be posting brief items about specific events which might interest the readers of this blog.  I will call these short items, "Blogettes."  Is that a word?  If not, then I just made it up.  

Hey, if Shakespeare can do it, then so can I!



Chicago Restaurant Week 2011




From February 18 - 27 this year the Chicago Convention and Tourism Bureau presents the 4th Annual "Chicago Restaurant Week" celebration.  For ten days, over 200 restaurants offer special prix fixe menus starting at $22 for lunch and $33/$44 for dinner.  This is an excellent opportunity for any diner, but especially the solo diner, to try out some amazing places that just might be a bit pricy at any other time of the year.

I will be trying out two restaurants this year during restaurant week: Aquitaine and Nacional 27.  I won't be dining alone at either one, but I'll post a quick blogette in a couple of weeks with a brief review of the food and service.  Last year I had dinner alone at Naha Naha.  Wow!  What a great experience that was - highly recommended for restaurant week as a solo diner.  Yum!

You can get a full list of restaurants including links to menus at Chicago Restaurant Week 2011.

Epicuriously Yours,
Tommy Hensel
Table For One, Please!

Welcome to Table for One, Please! With Tommy Hensel



Greetings!  My name is Tommy Hensel and I am a dedicated solo diner who frequently utters the words, "Table for one, please." 

Over the years, I have spent a great deal of time in bars and restaurants experiencing the joys and pitfalls of solo dining and I felt it was time to share some of my insights and experiences.  Besides, I have a big mouth and love to tell my friends about my dining experiences and a blog gives me the chance to make a million or so new friends with whom to share those experiences.



I currently live and work in the Chicago area, so the bulk of my current restaurant and bar experiences revolve around this amazing city.  Chicago is a mecca for the serious foodie.  I tend to be adventurous and eclectic in my food tastes, and Chicago has unbelievable options for fine dining.

But like all of you, I sometimes have the craving for comfort food like a good burger and fries.  Whatever the craving, Chicago probably has it.




Oh, yeah . . . and wine!  Learning about the best food/wine pairings has become one of my newest passions, so I am sure to blog about those insights.

If you're a beer person, don't despair!  I am also a huge fan of good, artisan beer so there will be plenty of posts on that as well.



As you can tell, good food and good drink are passions for me and I look forward to sharing those passions with you.  Most of all, however, I love the idea of getting more people turned on to the idea of how much fun it can be to dine out alone. 

PLEASE  feel free to chime in and leave your comments. And I look forward to hearing your favorite (or worst!)  stories and experiences.

So let's enjoy and have
fun eating and drinking!

Cheers,
Tommy

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